Near and dear ones,
And so this is Christmas. What
have we done….
Can it really be that our cohort
has now outlived John Lennon by about 15 years? As his old chestnut spins on
iTunes I’m looking at the decked halls and wrapped packages beneath a lovely little
tree and counting the blessings of another trip ‘round the sun in the company
of friends.
This one was less tumultuous
than the one before. Only one new school. No significant losses. No great
changes in work. In middle age, even those of us who enjoy change can give
thanks for a certain stability!
If it’s true, as Winston
Churchill said, that “to improve is to change; to be perfect is to change
often,” we remain imperfect. That’s fine, because I’m Calvinist enough to
embrace my imperfections as the lot of humankind in the state of total
depravity!
By Churchill’s measure, Martin
probably experienced more perfecting than the rest of us this year because he
transferred from the University of Mary Washington, in Fredericksburg, to
Virginia Commonwealth University in Richmond. While he enjoyed UMW well enough,
he craved a more diverse community and VCU certainly offers that. It also
offers the best social work program in VA, and Martin seems destined to follow
in his grandma Ensign’s footsteps at this point, although he’s only a sophomore
so there’s plenty of time for changing directions. Oh, and VCU also has
Delanie, Martin’s girlfriend of the past several years, and that is certainly a
major point in its favor! Martin spent another summer on the staff at Camp
Hanover, extending a family tradition of service there that dates back to the
camp’s founding in 1957.
Hannah also enjoyed some time at
camp over the summer as a camper. She seems destined to take a turn on the
staff there, as well, a few years down the line. In the meanwhile, she is a
bright and busy high school sophomore whose classmates, convinced that she’s
heading for Harvard, have taken to calling her “Ivy.” She’s way more interested
in the day-to-day than the long term at this point, and fills her days with a
healthy mix of study and sport. She ran cross-country in the fall, is on the
swim team at the moment, and plans to run track in the spring. Despite all that
running around, she almost always rolls her eyes dismissively when her father
invites her to join him on a run.
Once in a rare great while, Bud
will accept such an invitation, though only to a track workout. He keeps in good
shape for playing as much Ultimate Frisbee as possible. Over the summer, when
he was home following his first year of grad school at UC Santa Cruz, he
drafted Hannah to join him on a local rec league Ultimate team. Out in
California, his play has been stunted a bit by the combination of graduate
studies (he’s in his second year of Ph.D. work in computer science) and the
extreme drought that led the school to close almost all of its athletic fields.
He’s home for the holidays, catching up with friends, playing lots of games
with his siblings, and spending as much time as possible with Monica, his
long-time girlfriend, and her adorable Yorkie, Pretzel.
Cheryl continues to love her
work as an education outreach specialist at the Library of Congress. We’re all
grateful that she had no government shutdowns to endure in 2014, and have hopes
for another uninterrupted year. She still loves teaching teachers, and helping
them learn how to use the library’s unfathomably huge online collections in
their classrooms. She still gets a kick out of her institution’s public
exhibits, and we took a busman’s holiday on Veterans Day to tour the LoC’s
exhibit on the 50th anniversary of the 1964 Voting Rights Act, and
its adjacent display of one of four existing copies of the 1215 Magna Carta.
You should come check it; we know a good, cheap B&B.
If you visit over a weekend, you
can join us at the wee kirk, where David continues to serve a vibrant little
community of faith. After almost a dozen years, the work there remains filled
with all the joys and sorrows of pastoral ministry, and the laughter and
challenges of life in community. Beyond the work-a-day, David added lots of
miles to his now 55-year-old legs, completing a 4-miler, 5-miler, 10-k, two
half-marathons, and his 17 mile sections of a crazy 200-mile relay as part of a
12-person team that spent 30 hours making its way from the pan-handle of
Maryland to National Harbor in metro DC.
As most bi-vocational families
know, getting away is a challenge, but we met it a couple of times last year.
We visited Bud in Santa Cruz last spring, and explored red wood forests, surfed
(ish), hit boardwalk amusements, got a wee taste of San Francisco, and
generally soaked in the left coast as much as one can in one week.
Over the summer, Cheryl, Hannah
and David checked out the Wild Goose Festival in the mountains of North
Carolina, and then David and the kids got down to Chattanooga to visit that
branch of the Ensign clan.
So…another year over, and a new
one just about to begin. Sadly, war is not over despite the fact that we wish
and work for it. On the other hand, light still shines in the darkness, and the
darkness shall not overcome it. We hold you in the light, with gratitude for
friends and family during this holiday season.
Grace and peace from Arlington,
Cheryl, David, Dylan, Hannah,
& Martin
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